Paying for Etiquette
       Like everyone else from time to time we speak out against the high price
        of wines served at a restaurant. We compare the prices on the wine
        list to those we pay in the store down the street. Why is the same bottle
        of wine so much more expensive in the restaurant. Ah! because your pay
        for elegant service along with the pleasure and enjoyment of the presentation
        of the wine. The proper method of pouring. Wine served at the perfect temperature.
        A waiter who knows his wines knows how to serve them
        
        There are also business-related reasons for the mark up --the cost of storing
        the wine, training qualified wine and serving
        staff, and the cost of replacing broken stemware.
        
        My wife and I accompanied friends to a restaurant in greater
        Vancouver, The restaurant name will be omitted from this article although I
        will say it began with the word wine, An indication that they were
        proud of their wine list and ability to serve wine. Prices  began at $26.00
        a bottle and worked their way up to $90.00. 
      Our friends quickly stated that dinner was on them and asked
        me to select a bottle of wine. "Since you are the wine guy"  our
        host said. Now it is always easy to select an enjoyable wine, the question
        was how much are you going to spend at someone else's expense. I quite
        frankly thought the wines at this resturant were priced too high.
        
        I selectd one of the lower priced bottles of wine (sorry to say it was from
        Austrailia due to a poor selection of moderately priced Canadian wines) but
        not cheap. When the wine arrived the waitress placed the glasses on the table
        pushed them forward requesting that we pass the glasses down. She then produced
        the wine. To my atonishment the bottle was uncorked. My mind screamed no no
        no....so I protested. The waitress made a joke and began pouring wine into
        the first glass. Wait just minute here what is going on. Where is the proper
        wine serving etiquette. Once again I protested, My friend said" No, it's okay
        don't worry about it." I wasn't paying the bill so I fell silent. 
      It was quite obvious  this waitress had no idea how to serve wine,
        nor did the management. To me it was an  expensive bottle of wine 
        which I had been cheated out of the enjoyment of the wine tasting experience
        along with the necessary elegant etiquette required. There is an explicit
        relevance to the etiquette of wine. I did not let my disappointment ruin
        the rest of the meal and enjoyed the company of my wife and our friends. 
      
      The correct etiquette 
      After ordering, the waiter/sommelier will retrieve your selection, and
        then present it, label forward, to the person who selected the wine.. This
        is merely to verify it is the correct wine. The cork is removed and placed
        on the table. Unless it is clearly tainted, (the waiter/sommelier should
        notice if it is) do not touch or smell it, as it means nothing. 
      A small amount will then be poured for the host. Swirl the wine in the
        glass, smell, then taste. This is to make sure the wine is not spoiled
        and is not an opportunity to send back a sound wine that you are not crazy
        about. After approval, the wine will be poured clockwise to the right,
        ladies first. The selectors glass will be topped last. 
       
        If the waiter/sommelier is extremely good he/she will compliment you on your
        selection. They will also continuously check your table adding to your glass
        at the appropriate moment. In higher class restaurants it's the servers responsibility
        to refill your glass .